I'm 29. I have wasted 7 years for government exam preparation. What should I do?

Last Updated: 02.07.2025 09:28

I'm 29. I have wasted 7 years for government exam preparation. What should I do?

I did not answer your question but put forward my point of view and my understanding. It's ok if you don't agree with my points. Hoping for your better future buddy. All the best 👍

The geography of India matters for job market. For example a bcom pass guy might get a 10–15 k job or can be unemployed in his hometiwn. But if that same person goes to banglore and looks for jobs in financial background can easily start from 25 k till a good salary .

Dnt be fooled by movies which say do what your heart says kaam main maja aana chahiye. Each job needs discipline and focus so u won't be enjoying it.

Hello,hope y'all doin good, i came to Quora to share my strange story , a very weird one , a story when luck smiled at me ,maybe u will enjoy it , let's begin,have fun... A year ago ,I was a real porn addicted(btw I was 18) ,but never had sex before, I don't have a gf I didn't try to find one even ,always thinking to go to find a sex worker but then I just don't , everyday watching different bodies getting fucked and everyday enjoying. One day, I was watching porn, a big ass lady with big boobs ,just after seeing her the image of my female cousin poped in my mind, (let's introduce her : she's 35 years old , very big ass , nice boobs ,not very big but nice,always wearing tight clothes , she's divorced ) and I thought of me fucking her ,I never had sexual desires for her but now I do days went by and when I met her I was so horny ,I couldn't stay with the family cz my penis was clearly erected , I realized this is my first time I get horny for one of my family ,it not illegal in my country.well to make a long story short( if u want details just text me I will tell u 😊),I decided to give her signs that I want to fuck her,finally I decided to have sex and with my cousin , I thought it is the best beggining for me, i started touching her when I came across her in a narrow place , make her feel my hard cock when we hug , I thought it will hard and I will be ashamed but no , I felt nothing and she said nothing , probably she thought it was by mistake,anyways, I decided then to talk with her about sex, waited for her to be alone in a room and talk with her, I confessed everything about me watching porn and addicted..etc,she said it's normal and u are growing up and u must have sex,well at that time I was like whaaat????? Well I didn't control myself and asked her for sex ( horny like I Ve never been before) she said that she will think Abt it ,2 weeka went by then she called me ,telling that she reserved a room in a hotel and we meet tonight ,we met,and bruuhh, sex is great , I mean, I had to find a pirstitue ,what I was waiting for to have such a feeling ????, I will never forget that night, I started kissing her she was kissing hard ,she misses sex so bad , she sucked my dick and swallowed my semen ,I felt I'm in a dream , then when fucked ,her ass was very big and the anus was open ,didn't struggle to get my hard cock inside it , she was obviously missing sex , she was shouting ,fuck me yh fuck me , I go fast after every word until I cum , we did that 3 times , then we went to her pussy , using condoms I fucked her so hard the moans were higher , everything was perfect ,in the end I asked her to lick her body , licked pussy ,ass, boobs,then she sucked my cock until we sleeped ,all I know that she was dirty ,well before even having sex with her I knew she is an open minded woman , and a woman that looks that she donesnt know anything , but she knows everything, but never expected having sex with her ,well she was horny and that helped...but no one of us regretted that sex ever.. We still have sex from time to time ,and I started having sex with sex workers , joining threesomes..etc If u want pics of her text me.

In the present job market where unemployment is an issue data science and aiml fields are booming like anything where they are garnering around 3–4 lakh jobs in India. Moral of the story check the trends of job market and learn the skills accordingly.

Here is my story . I passed out in 2015 and spend 4 years for govt exams preparation. In 2019 I came across a emerging field called data science. I did some research and got interested in it. In august 2019 i packed my bags and shifted to banglore and started my data science certification. I. Feb 2020 I got a 25k salary job. Today 5 years later I am earning good I am planning to buy a car and planning to buy a house.That is my side of the story.

You can learn any skill. For example if you think u can't code its just a misconception . U try hard and focus u can code too . Don't keep mental blockades.

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Govt exams are good but at the end its a job dnt make it your life.